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The Red Quest taught me a lot.

The Red Quest Posts Chronological Index

This index currently lists 561 posts from 2017-04-28 until 2023-01-21.

See also my little anthology of his posts.

Archives

2017

• The evolution of monogamy in response to partner scarcity: don't marry
• Anyone doing any online dating needs to learn basic photography skills
• Ride a motorcycle—for fun, transport, and dating
• Someone is lying: The new Elon Musk biography and the supposed 22-year-old virgin actress
• “Women Are Now Cheating As Much As Men, But With Fewer Consequences”
• “Clothes That Attract Women” (don't exist in and of themselves)
• “Why Happy Couples Cheat” from Esther Perel
• Men don't take women on “dinner” dates because women don't want to go on them
• Practical tips from “Real World Divorce:” “Don't slide into marriage”
• Be aggressive and do better than most guys: “When Women Pursue Sex, Even Men Don't Get It”
• Be kind from a position of strength, not a position of weakness
• “Supply, Demand, and the Rise of the Man-Child:” Lessons
• “Young Americans Are Killing Marriage: Millennials are lagging behind on the traditional markers of adulthood”
• Most guys are weak. Be different: “Today’s men are not nearly as strong as their dads were, researchers say”
• Stories about midlife divorce are cautionary stories about why younger guys shouldn't marry
• Embrace the awkward
• Open relationships aren't the devil
• Escorts can improve the rest of your game
• “Why don't you post more field reports?”
• If she is a women's rights activist, sexual assault educator, or similar, RUN
• Don't be too eager to get a corporate job and wear a suit [Career][lifestyle]
• Snapchat in game: “Wish this was you”
• Responses so far
• The one important positive thing about online dating
• More men named in college sex assault cases are taking their accusers to court
• Women don't want monogamy or courtship so men don't offer it
• Zero sugar will change your body and life
• [FR] Slept with a girl I first met eight years ago
• There are no shortcuts. Don't believe everything you read online.
• Don't marry unless you're ready to pay
• Men, game, and social media strategies
• The solution is always, “Sleep with another girl.”
• Company loyalty is dead. Switch jobs every 18 months to two years. [Career]
• I hope this is just manosphere porn
• I can't believe I have to post this: talk to girls, or buy it
• The quitting economy
• “Salt Dating 101: How To Sleep With Sugar Babies Without Actually Paying Them”
• When the model goes totally out the window
• [FR] Met by accident on a bike
• “She’d always fancied me but her circumstances had changed”
• “She’ll accept the value proposition you’re offering at the start”
• Ramblings about a change in perspective towards game and life
• The need for basic game skills is still high
• Favorite tactic: girls on dates [FR]
• “What We Can Learn from Women Who Cheat”
• One of the more unusual and objectively speaking stupid approaches I've done
• “I was also wondering if I really wanted to stay in the Game”
• Sociologist Mark Regnerus: ‘Cheap sex’ is making men give up on marriage
• If you’re still deeply in the matrix… you’re likely not suffering terribly, because you don’t know any better.
• “Why Happy People Cheat:” Hahahaha
• Don't believe everything you're told:
• Frame control technique: “You only get to ask one question, then I get a question!”
• My pet theory: people get discontent with what they have
• The more game I've needed the worse the relationship has been
• “Why so many women cheat on their husbands”
• I sensed the “what are we?” conversation
• Sex clubs, swingers, and game
• Guys, branch swinging, and the low-effort shot
• “But this other guy says…”
• Feminism's internal contradictions as seen through Playboy
• “Where PUAs go to die”
• “I Love My Girlfriend. So Why Do I Keep Cheating on Her?”
• Bike Girl at the party
• “Evolutionary theory says men stray to increase offspring, but what motivates women? Enter the mate-switching hypothesis”
• “Reading the body language of girls”
• “‘Willing to Do Everything,’ Mothers Defend Sons Accused of Sexual Assault”
• “Memoir of Growing Up Fat Forces France to Look in the Mirror,” yeah, no kidding
• Why a guy should never marry, as described by women
• Warning about falling into the girl's frame
• Don't get married and make sure you get that DNA test
• “What are your rules for talking about RP concepts?”
• Cheap Sex: The Transformation of Men, Marriage, and Monogamy
• Daygame failures in Nashville [FR]
• “The only guys who like your pictures are the ones you don't want to like your pictures”
• Bike Girl: Good and Bad
• “More than half of U.S. kids will be obese by the time they’re 35, study predicts”
• Tom Torero's memoir-textbook “Daygame”
• The best books for learning game
• Bizarrely, Pamela Anderson is the voice of reason: “You know what you’re getting into if you’re going into a hotel room alone”
• The holidays are coming up: shit tests, comfort tests, and gifts [intermediate and above]
• The perils of younger women
• Can We Be Honest About Women? Women love the sexual interplay they experience with men
• The deep psychology that keeps men in the game
• “It's OK for alpha males”
• New Year's Eve
• How to drop a bomb on a group conversation

2018

• What's with guys who are with considerably uglier women? [FR?]
• “Women hardest hit.” Also, don't get married.
• How many women are open to sex parties and partner swapping? [intermediate/advanced]
• Frame. And why non-monogamy helps make me more diligent about diet and body
• “Why women prefer male bosses”
• Catch and release women who want families
• ‘The desire to have a child never goes away’: how the involuntarily childless are forming a new movement
• Paul Janka's street hustling and escalation
• “Tinder and the Tyranny of Language” is an argument for daygame
• ‘Cheap Sex,’ our lives, our politics
• Sex parties and sex clubs could be the next level of game
• “The female price of male pleasure” is missing one important thing: men and women are biologically different.
• “I don't know who I am anymore”
• Pickup Dark Arts: kink, group play, blowing her mind
• “What Happens When a Married Woman Goes on Tinder?” Don't get married
• What I do when she sends nudes
• Women don't make emotional contracts
• “My husband pressured me into sex for years” #DontGetMarried
• “You cannot negotiate genuine desire.”
• “No Ring, No Baby: How Marriage Trends Impact Fertility”
• Value & idiots
• The quiet ones
• “I hate him:” Don't get married unless you're ready for hate
• Skin in the game, marriage, The Red Pill
• Bike Girl is finally over
• Good Looking Loser is dead; long live GLL. Why Reddit only works for newbies
• “What It’s Like to Go Through Life As a Really Beautiful [Unaware] Woman”
• “What Sleeping With Married Men Taught Me About Infidelity”
• DNA confirms: women like to screw around, lie about it
• Turning down marginal notches
• The 80/20 principle and why “there are no good men out there”
• “I've never had a boyfriend before”
• “Magnum Game”
• “The 41 Commandments Of Pussy”
• “Failing at Trying to Have an Affair” with Ashley Madison
• “Glamourising the ‘Childfree Life’ Ignores Reality for Most Childless Women”
• I really, really, really hope this comment is just a troll
• Slept with a twenty-year-old last night:
• The game challenge: doing what's unnatural
• Story update on the 20-year-old
• Did it
• Game-aware guys being “poly” or “open”
• I don't believe self-reported data about sex
• “Female Intrasexual Competition: From Demons to Better Angels”
• ‘Why Do New Mothers Hate Their Husbands?’
• “From Baby to Bride: Can ‘sugar’ relationships be a path to real love?”
• One more time
• Texting guide
• What to say to girls | a structure for a daygame stack
• “When you’ve done it all, what then?”
• “Women cheat because they LOVE their husbands”?
• Three major circles: game, sex clubs, mainstream corporate
• Companies choose workers who are likely to be better workers
• Interesting text from the 20-year-old
• It's like word is getting out about how marriage is a bad deal
• Nash's Daygame Infinite review
• “Can We Talk About Toxic Feminity?”
• How to get chicks to go to the sex club
• Always with the single moms
• “Fat acceptance” will never happen in the places it matters
• “Recurring Revenue, Sex, and Notes on Four Girls”
• Ms. Slav story
• The hunt and the meal
• “28.3 percent of women… fantasized about…”
• Chicks declaim responsibility
• “When a DNA Test Shatters Your Identity”
• “I know it was wrong but my desire for him and for adventure was so intense”
• “A lot of women don’t enjoy hookup culture—so why do we force ourselves to participate?”
• Ms. Slav story update
• I take it back: I think I have to cut her loose
• Podcast with Tom Torero and Anthony
• You know what's funny?
• “Author Robin Rinaldi’s open marriage experiment ends in divorce and a memoir”
• “When was the last time you were tied up?”
• When the problem is not the problem
• “My dad was not my biological father.”
• “Verbalizing Nonmonogamy Right Up Front”
• “Daygame Lay Report: Closing The Loop”
• “Sex, Steroids, And Arnold: The Story Of The Gym That Shaped America”
• Ms. Slav is back, and, also, use a vibrator during sex
• Teachers
• “Which People Would Agree to Have Sex With a Stranger?”
• What do we spend our excess money on? Sex.
• Sex robots from an evolutionary biologist
• “One in 25 fathers is not biological parent – study”
• Really, really, don't get married–take it from a woman
• Cause things change
• More on Ms. Slav, and lessons for men who are dating
• Why players get out of the game
• Feedback request: What do you want to see in a book about non-monogamy and players?
• “How to deal with rejection.”
• Photography game?
• Jealousy and non-monogamy
• Where I fit in to the game world
• “Delivery Room Workers Explain What Happens When A Baby Clearly Isn’t The Father’s”
• “Life’s too short to try to manage damaged people”
• The second open-relationship, non-monogamy girl
• “The ‘Untrue’ Woman” is another lesson to guys: don't get married.
• Don't be this guy
• Non-monogamy is NOT for everyone
• Another Ms. Slav update
• The average guy and the player have different problems
• Ecosystems and clubs
• “Don't fall for a girl half your age.”
• “Modern Love: Talking to My Fiancé About My New Girlfriend”
• “When a DNA Test Reveals Your Daughter Is Not Your Biological Child”
• “After a year of #MeToo, Americans are more sceptical about sexual harassment”
• “Aggressive and Humiliating Sexual Play” are highly desired by most people
• There is no easy way: there is only the hard way
• Ms. Slav: the latest updates
• The beta is strong in this one
• High school memories: no sex for you, but yes for the next guy
• “How do I know a girl is serious or just leading things on?”
• The top girl from Seeking Arrangements
• “Untrue,” on female lust and infidelity, for players
• “Boom! First SDL from daygame: part one”
• Who I write for and why you need to blog
• Get past your identity and look at the data
• Jeremy with the burns
• Immigration, identity, knowledge part 2
• Ms. Slav story updates: Enter new girl Peaches
• “Financial abortion” for men
• Girls who don't understand that sex isn't just available “on demand” for guys
• “‘Sneating’ is the online dating trend that feeds on chivalrous men”?
• Victoria's Secret knows that women want to be sexy
• Peaches for days [LR]
• “The Suburban Mom Thinking About Cheating on Her Husband”
• This is probably a stupid thing to do, but…
• Age and players
• Disagree but be smart about it
• Ms. Slav at Thanksgiving–and the next, less good event
• “I’m Broke and Mostly Friendless, and I’ve Wasted My Whole Life”  
• Nobody Cares. Work Harder.
• Discretion and the Secret Society
• Some men are stupid and need the Red Pill
• Sin City as a temporary escape
• Priorities and Ms. Slav's challenges in non-monogamy
• Found out the problem with Ms. Slav
• Hollywood knows exactly what to “do” with childless women
• “The Loneliest Generation: Americans, More Than Ever, Are Aging Alone”
• Figured out why Vegas seems bad for daygame
• What flaking looks like, from a woman's perspective
• Girls with high numbers
• Independent date with Ms. Slav's friend from home
• Ms. Slav party night
• Non-monogamy and the game: book update
• There is a very large amount of randomness (noise) in pickup and game
• Surprised by indifference. Guys can flake too.
• “The 5 Years That Changed Dating”
• “Polyamorous sex is the most quietly revolutionary political weapon in the United States”
• “The Married Woman Who’s Been Cheating for 6 Years”
• “U.S. Population Grew at Slowest Pace in More Than 80 Years”
• One I got and then didn't want
• What open relationships look like for a bottom, beta guy

2019

• Interesting Wednesday night. Happy New Year!
• The Tom Torero lay report book, “Below the Belt”
• “Sex Clubs, Non-Monogamy, and Game:” The free ebook
• What kind of guy is willing to appear in these articles?
• Don't just be a consumer: A cyclist is a disaster for the economy
• Profiling girls by age is not that useful
• We're discouraging marriage and families at every level
• Why the United States is filled with fatties
• You are part of “The Revolt of The Public and the Crisis of Authority in the New Millennium”
• Peaches, Cassie, Ms. Slav updates and thoughts
• “How America Grew Bored With Love” and needs GAME
• “Thousands of dads are left in shock as DIY paternity tests soar”
• What flaking looks like from a woman's perspective
• Veering into the dark zone of female psychology
• “50 Years Ago, Sugar Industry Quietly Paid Scientists To Point Blame At Fat”
• Cleaning house after the death: de-clutter and live your experience
• Ms. Slav flakes, Peaches, masculinity and polarity
• I wonder if “Talking to Women” describes men today, too:
• Sonny Arvado: The image match and reciprocity
• “The Woman Worried She’ll Never Meet Her Polyamorous Boyfriend’s Parents”
• “Bang It Out With Paul Janka” podcast
• Guys badly want social media to work. Here's why it (mostly) doesn't
• “I Love My Boyfriend Dearly—but I’m Desperate to Have Sex With Other Men”
• You only see the tip of the spear
• Art and music event: Ran into that guy again, and other game things
• “John Yudkin: the man who tried to warn us about sugar”
• Chicks know high-status guys aren't going to wait around
• “The Intern Who Doesn’t Have Time for Real Dates”
• Martin Gurri on the public revolt and the rise of information networks
• The positive, light-side frame, not the negative, dark-side frame
• Updated the book with proper headers
• “Low-cut top girl,” opening off an IOI on the way to the gym [FR]
• Status/coolness first, THEN evangelize for whatever the thing is
• Krauser on Blackdragon
• Fashion and clothes for players
• Truthfulness, reality, politics, the Red Pill
• Addendum to the fashion post: figure out your weaknesses
• The university mess up and the dorm bicycle
• “Truths About The Red Pill, Seduction And Why RP May Actually Be Hurting Your Success With Women.”
• Chicks find it hard to get someone attractive yet interesting
• “It is not your job to match your boyfriend’s libido.” Yes, it is.
• How I started learning the game and seduction
• Low-cut top girl asks if I am a “fuckboy”
• Two possible paths forward: Hedonistic partying vs children
• “Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity”
• Tell your girl to use a vibrator during sex, and other bedroom tips and sex skills for guys
• “The DIY Divorce: How I got divorced without hiring a lawyer”
• Social cooperation vs. competition
• “The Problem With Feminine Women”
• Your life is a reflection of who you are
• “When the U.S. falls into a recession, a credit bubble will explode”
• A woman recognizes toxic femininity and how bogus “MeToo” is???
• When girls shift from pure party mode to preferring guys with resources
• Garbage post about ranking chicks
• Funny, but evil
• “Study: Pickup Artist Training Works”
• High Performance Psychology
• Home Friend is stepping up? [FR]
• Be extreme
• The algorithm for girls who you're not sure about
• A week in the life of the beta male
• Your male competitors choose video games over sex
• Low-cut top girl: first sex club experience, plus DRAMA
• When you're not that into the girl after sex
• “He Cheated in an Open Marriage”
• Emotions and Ms. Slav, Low-cut top girl and a weird foursome
• Why romantic rejection stings: evolved psychology
• Kids, the player, and the Red Pill: Comprehensive statement
• What a woman who is determined to stay married looks like
• Game or relationship “levels:” Different for men and women
• Red Pill and seduction world downsides
• “Rom-Coms Were Corny and Retrograde. Why Do I Miss Them so Much?”
• Truths rarely admitted: “There’s nothing more powerful in our culture than a beautiful woman”
• “The Key Logger” by Nicholas Jack
• “I guess you didn’t like guys who were—Dependable.”
• Book of Pook
• Planning your life, ten years out
• Most chicks feel anxiety and uncertainty, and most guys never realize it
• Bike Girl: One year away thoughts
• “Sometimes I wonder if everyone is cheating and marriage is just a stupid façade”
• Woman unhappy: High-value men won't commit to her
• Date-onomics: players should go where the gender ratio is good
• “Enrollment Shortfalls Spread to More Colleges”
• The unexpected one from Feeld: she is a tourist from another country
• Moby book, “And Then It Fell Apart”
• Saw Ms. Slav last night for her birthday
• Perspective, “First Wave at Omaha Beach”
• Two points on loneliness, family, and evolutionary biology
• Boredom = death
• Who counts and who doesn't in the game
• “The Startling Rise of Choking During Sex”
• Short Dancer vignette
• “The Woman Searching for the Lust She Didn’t Have Before”
• Americans are lying about their sexual desire: they want more variety and violence than you've been led to believe
• Location and logistics, married guys
• Two kinds of women in non-monogamy: The reluctant and the feral
• “Three Women” hamster, by Lisa Taddeo
• Location-independent businesses are rarer than online seminar hucksters would have you believe
• The people who pursue and practice and the ones who don't
• “Why Online Dating Can Feel Like Such an Existential Nightmare” means do daygame
• 35-year-old New York City woman can't understand why she's single
• The Coast of Utopia: A lot of women would rather focus on their children
• Sex club culture and socializing there
• What graceful femininity looks like and sounds like
• Bodi's book Death by a Thousand Sluts, on pickup and escaping being a gamma
• Why everyone is fat and has no money
• Is it you talking, or your ego talking? Drop dead leads fast
• Sex and the City and the woman's age
• Whoops. Last weekend. Backsliding in game.
• Gay guy hits on me as I walk back from coffee
• More backsliding
• “Types, truth, bad vibes, and the red pill attachment style”
• Girls who do stupid things, like yell back at a carload of guys late at night
• Ghetto-world girls #1, Shannon
• Sex skills for guys: psychology, preparation, and practice
• Three chicks on the state of big-city dating
• Tough conversations. Downside of being known as a player
• “The mom having an affair because her husband did first”
• “Picking up girls” skills and “long-term relationships” skills
• On choosing life
• Asking a girl too many questions, date structure
• Threesome management. How to do and arrange FFM and MFM
• Basic sex party. Relationship skills
• That one and only one about incels
• Women hate the demystification of romance: commodities, artisans, and the game
• Yoylo's first sex club experience [FR]
• What do I mean by “levels” of game/seduction discussion?
• Just listen to the music, “bad boys bring heaven to you”
• “Good Men Aren’t Getting Harder to Find”
• Halloween party and being part of the larger group
• Social dancing, social skills, and the game
• “Rich Like Me: How Assortative Mating Is Driving Income Inequality”
• Don't trust stupid Internet financial advice. Compounding interest is real
• “Why 16? Who do age of consent laws really protect” A dangerous story, too
• Brief one about limited interactions at a sex party
• “The stripper with the sugar daddy”
• Basics like asking the girl out and escalation
• Combining non-monogamy, game, and sex clubs to unlock abundance and commodification
• “First swingers clubs,” from a player in a forum
•  European sex club report
• “Open marriage considerations”
• How she behaves towards other people is one day how she'll behave towards you
• Woman validates the Red Pill, “The Beauty Exec Fantasizing About the Single Dad Next Door”
• Loneliness and long term versus libido
• Group sex and the shift from scarcity to abundance
• Responsibility and later seduction. Internal congruence
• “I Thought I Wanted to Go It Alone” Narrator: “She did not.”
• Home Friend, again, and the cycle guys choose
• Pacing and seduction
• How to frame and execute nude photo shoots with women
• Pablo Picasso, the artist and player
• Where I'm on-board with alternative lifestyles and where I deviate
• Putting the girl into the friend zone: a kind of mean story from college

2020

• BDSM dates & sex skills & online dating
• Singles push politics and societies to be more extreme??
• Game, intelligence, IQ, image match
• How not to be boring on dates
• Passionate love and companionate love for guys
• Women don't think that women can make adult decisions and be held accountable for those decisions
• “He is exactly the kind of partner a liberated woman is supposed to want, and yet she despises him for it”
• “Why meeting another’s gaze is so powerful:” the power of eye contact
• How many marry out of tiredness or desperation?
• Don't ask for nudes. Don't be pleased if you get them too soon.
• Write your player blog. It's an advertisement, but not in the way you think.
• “The cat years”
• Guys building a big non-monogamy ecosystem
• The game's endgame and picking up a girl at a private party
• The three-date “rule” before sex
• Festivals, parties, etc. and the network's power
• Rollo Tomassi Rational Male post
• What to write about in your game/player blog
• Unwifeable, a memoir, by Mandy Stadtmiller
• Where spinsters come from, “I would love to get married at some point”
• What to learn from famous guys, acting over the long term
• Dating sex positive and non-monogamous girls… and a ramble about the game
• Recent additions to the sex club guide book
• Yes, the coronavirus is really dangerous and no, your view of the “media” being wrong is not relevant
• The dark side of denial and dishonesty about women
• Priorities and what you bring to life (Katie's story)
• Dating during coronavirus: Not convinced online will work
• Lots of swings and lots of misses (FR)
• Prolific online dating selects for delusional chicks
• Couple-to-couple dating mechanics, and keeping a texting roster for sex clubs
• Things Red Pill and pickup get right about men and women
• What the thinking escort is thinking
• The male analogy: young guys blowing their military cash
• Diminishing returns to “learning more game”
• “We expect too much from our romantic partners”
• How I see dating, girls, COVID-19, and the quarantines, right now
• Reveal vs Restructure: “This is why the Player’s Journey can be so traumatic for many men. They are diving deep into their inner game to confront long-suppressed demons.”
• Character, game, dating, and would YOU swap lives?
• Delicious Tacos' book, “THE PUSSY”
• “Call Her Daddy” the podcast, and what guys should take from it
• Why Twitter's Brooding Sea is likely a faker, and some other musings on the top of game
• Why you can't trust drug claims, and what that says about the ability to trust in general
• Red Scare podcast girls on real sex
• “Eurovision Song Contest: The Story of Fire Saga:” the uncanny valley
• Curiosity leads to sexual freedom… and threesomes… and storytelling
• Sailor socialist girl doesn't care, and it's not about economic systems
• Why Twitter's Brooding Sea is likely a faker, and some other musings on the top of game
• What does “quality girl” mean?
• Parties
• XBTUSD on his first non-monogamy experiences
• U.S. politics is defined by the structure of the American constitution:
• How much texting should you do to get the girl? Less than you think
• There's no money in it
• How much texting should you do to get the girl? Less than you think
• Not the only guy who's figured it out
• Roasted at Thanksgiving this year, and the legend of Ms. Slav
• Setting the non-monogamous frame and intention with women: XBTUSD
• What XBTUSD's first sex party was like
• Breeze gives The Talk
• XBTUSD’s take on “the talk” a woman gives when she wants to advance the relationship

2021

• Women having affairs never make you use a condom
• The most stridently asserted opinions will disappear down the memory hole (Pat Stedman example)
• Christianity, maybe an improvement on political religions
• Where do your ideas come from? Doing things, going places
• My perspective on investing and financial security is super vanilla
• Pickup is hard, and top girls don't stay that way for long, and musings on networks
• No one “empowered” talks about “empowerment:” see the lie
• How to build communities and find tribe
• “A Unicorn’s Tale: Three-Way Sex With Couples Has Made Me a Better Person”
• The Internet fantasy bubble: the gap between the responsible and the spectators
• Muscle: Confessions of an Unlikely Bodybuilder
• Breaking it off with the secret affair girl
• Chicks want you to make the first move, so do it
• Delicious Tacos talks to Personality Girl and Default Friend about getting laid and other things
• Xbtusd on the “price” of sex, and how guys pay it
• Girls talking about their friend's open relationship: It's happening
• A guy screws up a potential foursome with his endless monologuing
• “The [male] feminist”
• Doing it differently (Playing the long game)
• Coffee with a marginal chick, and the sex club multiplier (Keynesian)
• Integrating smart drugs, like MDMA (molly), smartly
• Don't say anything, and instead change the debate
• Compassion and empathy for chicks
• Dating unusual girls who have aspergers, or are non-reactive
• Most guys don't care much about getting laid, I hypothesize
• The “club” world's underlying darkness, and the non-monogamy world
• One of the hard parts about game and dating: when doing nothing is the best option
• The beautiful privileges of the hot chick, and the disposability of the father
• A threesome saga: energy & vibe
• Peacocking, fashion, and a guy who tragically friend-zones himself
• Intense experiences in bed during sex: BDSM & analogues
• Traveling tourist girls and the fate of daygame
• This is your red pill / pickup “guru,” Roosh
• Lessons for men and players from The State of Affairs
• Game and group sex are many things, but boring isn't among them
• Paying for women (no, not that way: on dates)
• Join the network and create the reality-based future
• How to think about “future projection” on dates, and how to retain girls better
• Asian guys, dating, the game, and embracing the struggle
• Field report: meeting an intrigued Indian doctor
• The network approach and the shotgun approach: why and when girls flake in dating
• Why I don't accept most generalizations about men and women and you shouldn't either
• Why are polyamory and non-monogamy popular now? The Internet.
• “Just go talk to her:” how to think about meeting women
• THE GOOD GIRL, a novel, is out today
• Why are women fascinated with therapy? 
• Chasing a girl in Latin America [FR]
• A woman goes to the husband store…
• The top player (seducer) is an extreme insider or an extreme outsider, but not average
• Will public and socially acknowledged sex tapes become common and normalized?

2022

• “How did you figure all this out?” On women and dating
• The curious, cautionary fates of many of the guys who go deep into game and Internet
• Reading THE GAME, the original, by Neil Strauss
• Cocky funny with two girls in a bar [FR]
• The time horizon question
• “Why I Left Feminism”
• The underestimated power of scent
• EUPHORIA, it's a conservative TV show, didn't you know?
• Transsexualism, bodybuilding, anorexia: body dysmorphia's many forms
• “The cost of sexual liberation” for women
• The “communication” shibboleth women talk about about in relationships 
• “The End of Women”
• The false mystique of the “top guy,” and what revealed preferences show women really want
• A story about introducing another couple to non-monogamy slowly, and the virtues of moving slowly versus quickly
• The online dating expectations mismatch
• A lot of guys are pussies, but that means opportunity for the few who aren't
• What science, engineering, math, and other nerds get wrong about talking to women
• Few things of value are free
• Women write “No ethical non-monogamy” (ENM) on their Tinder profiles: is it true?
• Friendship and how to be real
• Does the game have a limit? I'm still learning
• “Deserves” is a childish word
• Learnings from women's dating podcasts: Grandma versus young girls
• “Never settle” is an expression of narcissism
• Date structure and arc: how to plan and execute dates
• Brad P's dating education memoir “Diary of a Pickup Artist (PUA)”
• What comes after we recognize a dead, boomer ideology?
• The whining disparity: Male struggle is invisible to most women
• “He's not paying enough attention to me”
• Woman is honest: Men being too explicit and asking permission for sex is a turn off
• What comes after we recognize a dead, boomer ideology?
• What does a serious society look like? What does a serious movement look like?
• Life as a one-way function 
• What Happens When Women Date Women
• Xbtusd game updates: many leads from many girls
• The most powerful “privilege” is hot girl privilege, which is everywhere
• How Richard Hanania used The Game and evolutionary biology to overcome anxiety
• How to turn a woman off: be weak and indecisive
• “Tone” and “teasing” are hard to nail
• Mr. Blackwing's first sex party
• Anything you read about dating in the legacy media is about weirdo outliers
• You're probably more normal, in many ways, than you think: rules and breaking rules
• The post about there not being much left for me to say, while encouraging other guys to carry on
• “He was nice but average, unstimulating”
• How I use conversations about her “peak experiences” in dates, and in pitching non-monogamy
• Lessons from a story about a Chad taking a chick to a sex party

2023

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